An excerpt from my forthcoming book, How To Do Single With Dignity and Grace. As a heterosexual cis-gendered woman myself, I am speaking...

October 18, 2021 Email to a Friend I’m smiling. We spent so much time wishing we had lived our lives differently when we lived our lives...

The word “toxic” gets thrown around quite a bit in our society. It’s a very loaded term and it’s a very loaded concept. Before you start...

There are a few tenets I hold fast to, that define me and guide me in every decision I make. I firmly believe that wherever you are is...

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So, throw off the bowlines,...

A True Story They know what they want and they don’t play games. They’re experienced and confident. They ask for what they want, which is...

There’s a dating site for every fetish. Seriously. Every fetish. I wasn’t sure if I should include this chapter because I don’t really...

Make a list of the traits you’d like to find in a partner. Here’s a list I made quite some time ago: "39-57, professional, non-smoker, no...

I think it’s rude to ghost people, but I do it sometimes. And sometimes people ghost me. Sometimes it’s a good idea. Sometimes it’s rude....