cocodensmore
There’s nothing that will ruin a relationship faster than getting to know someone.
May 27, 2023 Saturday Night It’s the second weekend I have not spent with David in months. In fact, we’ve only missed perhaps three...
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cocodensmore
- May 25
- 4 min
I can do alone quite well. I’ve done it all my life.
May 25, 2023 I start my fourth round of TMS Friday. I noticed I was slipping, for a good month now, and I made a commitment to get on it...
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cocodensmore
- May 21
- 1 min
Cougar Adventure #3
February 19, 2017 I met Jesus online. What a love. A Mexican American man in his mid-30s. He lives in Southern California. Handsome,...
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cocodensmore
- May 21
- 2 min
Cougar Adventure #2
February 17, 2017 A young man sent me a very very sexually aggressive message on a dating site. I don’t know why I didn’t just block him....
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cocodensmore
- May 21
- 1 min
Cougar Adventure #1
February 15, 2017 Online Exchange with a 20 Something Me: So look out for me trying to fuck things up with you because number one you...
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cocodensmore
- May 20
- 5 min
Therapy, man, therapy.
May 20, 2023 David and I broke up last night. Am I devastated? No. I’m sad. Why is it different this time? Why am I not laid out flat in...
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cocodensmore
- May 20
- 5 min
It’s the small things, always the small things.
May 19, 2023 Relationships are incredibly difficult. The longer you’re with someone, the more invested, the more there is at stake. The...
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cocodensmore
- May 3
- 3 min
But for now, I’m giving it all I’ve got. And I like that about me.
May 3, 2023 It’s been seven months since our first date. A few days beyond that when we matched on Hinge. It’s been at times joyful, at...
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cocodensmore
- Mar 27
- 1 min
“You know where the wedding dress store is?”
December 15, 2017 I’m having martinis with Adrian in my fucked up messed up studio apartment. We’re running out of vodka. He calls his...
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