December 3, 2021 Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about my father. I seem to have forgiven him. I’m 58 years old. I say that a lot. It’s...

December 21, 2024 Every day I am sad about what is happening in the world. In Gaza, in Syria, incredible tragedy and overwhelming human...

August 2, 2021 The Louisville Vacation I just had a long chat with a fellow I met in a bar who ended a 44-year marriage recently....

December 9, 2024 Note to a friend: I would strongly caution anyone to avoid involvement with someone in a monogamous relationship with...

February 2, 2018 Last week was a fabulous week. It culminated in the best sex I could ever hope for with the man I love most in the...

November 20, 2024 It’s been difficult to read the news the last few days. Some surmise that Trump’s cabinet picks are payback for the...

November 7, 2024 I have read and reread this post from Adam Kinzinger . I hope he is wrong, that it won’t be this bad — but no one knows...

September 30, 2024 I was just thinking about how I outed Married Man to his wife. “That’s the worst fucking thing I ever did,” I said out...

September 21, 2024 Watching it turn to dusk out my window just now, my mind rested on Jeff. I felt that warmth flow through me, from my...