“To know that you do not know is best. To think you know when you do not is a disease. Recognizing this disease as a disease is to be free of it."

-Lao Tzu

Coco Densmore is an unremarkable mature BBW. She writes about Embracing Her Single, being HSV-2+, the challenges of living with BPD and bipolar mental illness, and her healing journey from the trauma of childhood sexual abuse.


She is currently working on a new book, How To Do Single With Dignity and Grace. She's also converting her memoirs to a novel.

A completely boring HERPES educational blog post that you should absolutely read anyway.


Coco Densmore on themighty.com.


Coco Densmore on medium.com.

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Artwork - a gift from R* at The Nuthouse, Redux


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