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“And I’m in the process of trying to reconcile my life, good and bad things have happened to me. And I have done good and bad things to others. There have been times when I beat myself up over some things. But I’m getting to the point where I can claim that in some way all of those contradictions belong. In some way they are part of the story of who I am and who I am becoming.”

-Adam Ericksen

I am an unremarkable mature BBW. I write about Embracing My Single, being HSV-2+, the challenges of living with mental illness, and my healing journey from the trauma of childhood sexual abuse.


I write about past and current relationships. Some of it is pretty saucy. Much of it is profound and redeeming.


My goal is to share my experiences with others who suffer mental illness as I do. I want you to understand you can do things that go against your Truth and not self-condemn.

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I've written two books: How To Do Single With Dignity & Grace and Empowered Online Dating, available on Amazon.

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