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“The books that the world calls immoral are books that show the world its own shame.”
-Oscar Wilde

I am an unremarkable mature BBW. I write about Embracing My Single, being HSV-2+, the challenges of living with mental illness, and my healing journey from the trauma of childhood sexual abuse.


I write about past and current relationships. Some of it is pretty saucy. Much of it is profound and redeeming.


My goal is to share my experiences with others who suffer mental illness as I do. I want you to understand you can do things that go against your Truth and not self-condemn.

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I've written two books: How To Do Single With Dignity & Grace and Empowered Online Dating, available on Amazon.

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