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“Be reminded that you are the architects of your life, and you have the freedom to design it however you wish. You are loved, and in turn, we are reminded to keep our vibrations aligned to love.”

-The Rev. Dr. Aretha Flucker

I am an unremarkable mature BBW. I write about Embracing My Single, being HSV-2+, the challenges of living with mental illness, and my healing journey from the trauma of childhood sexual abuse.


I write about past and current relationships. Some of it is pretty saucy. Much of it is profound and redeeming.


My goal is to share my experiences with others who suffer mental illness as I do. I want you to understand you can do things that go against your Truth and not self-condemn.

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I've written two books: How To Do Single With Dignity & Grace and Empowered Online Dating, available on Amazon.

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